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Here are The five-5 ways to deal with love frustration in your relationship

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 Failure to have this is what leads to sexuual frustration. When one or both partners are not getting sexual contact as often as they want, or in the manner they want it, their relationship comes under stress, and its continuous existence under a real threat. Sexual frustration is such a big deal because that lack of harmony and satisfaction has a way of diffusing into other parts of the relationship or marriage, up to the point where everything could become irredeemable. Below we list five ways to deal with sexual frustration so that the harmony and satisfaction in your relationship does not get low to this point of no return. 1. Be willing to experiment Usually in sexual relationships, people have different perceptions of what sex should be like. Therefore one thing that excites one may gross out the other and this, obviously, creates a hole that needs filling [ignore the pun if you can]. One way for couples to plug this opening is to be willing to experiment and help each other ...
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Here are the Seven relatable reasons why people remain in bad marriages

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 NB: Every marriage has its own problems - from the little infrequent issues, to the huge recurring ones that give partners serious headaches. For people in joyless and seemingly-irredeemable marriages, the obvious option would be to seek a way out and look for happiness elsewhere, but as experience has taught, many people in such situations often choose to stay right in the marriage. 1. The hope of change Many people remain with husbands and wives who do not treat them right in the hope that they'd change at some point and this is actually a great reason. But the question is; do bad habits die easy? 2. Fear for their kids 'I don’t want my kids to grow up with separated parents' 3. What will people say? The fear of what people will say should never be strong enough to sway your decisions or choices. If you choose to stay and fight for your marriage and happiness, let it not be because you fear what people would say. 4. The fear of the unknown 'Where will I go from here?...
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Here are the Five (5) classic excuses men give for cheating

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 These are the most-used explanations given by cheating Men. A boyfriend or husband that has been caught pants down with another woman will always have an explanation and for Nigerian men there are classic excuses that have been used repeatedly over the years and keep getting used till date. 1. It was the devil Ah, the all-time classic. Just blame it on the devil all the time. But hey, just hold it right there, sir. It was no devil, it was you all by yourself. You planned it, executed it and got the pleasure all by yourself. 2. I don’t know what came over me I’ll tell you for free what came over you. Selfishness and inconsideration, that’s what. 3. I did not mean to hurt you If you didn’t you would not have planned and executed it the first time, second time, third and other numerous times, with more than one girl. Sit down, bruh, you meant to hurt her every single time. 4. It was a one time thing Of course you don't expect anyone to confess to being a serial cheater. 5. You’re the...
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3 surprising signs of cheating you may find in your partner

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 But if you think you have seen all there is to spotting a cheating partner, you might want to think again. Here below, we list some behaviours that could low-key be signs that your man is cheating on you. 1. He passes on date night Stepping away from this, or even worse, declining intimacy, can be a red flag to watch out for in a relationship or marriage. According to Dr. Nicole Zapien, a professor of Psychology in California, USA, “It signals a giving up or turning away.” If he or she is cheating, it could be that their emotional or sexual needs are being met elsewhere, meaning they no longer need to get them from you. 2. Gut feeling Your partner may cover their tracks well, they may still be doing all the relationship things and giving you the same level of exciting energy they’ve always given, but somewhere deep down, you just feel that you are being deceived or being played. There is no evidence and no sure way to pin the cheating on him or her, but the feeling just won’t go a...
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Do cheating partners ever change?

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 Is there any chance that a partner who once cheated will ever change? Anyone who has ever been cheated on will have no problem telling you that a partner who has cheated once will do it again. The fear is understandable for such people who have been burnt once. And it's even worse if they forgave the partner, only for him or her to go out there and do it again, over and over till every last tiny bit of trust is scraped off their partner's souls. But that seems to be only part of the story. Cheaters do indeed change. "I know someone who was once a bad cheat," says Freddie [not his real name], a bachelor in Lagos. "At the height of his philandering, he once locked out his visiting girlfriend till he finished with his sidechick. "When he was done, he put the side chick in his flatmate's room before going to open the door for his girlfriend who was in tears at the embarrsassment. Nothing happened and he remained in a relationship with her for a long time af...
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Overly jealous partner? Here's how to deal with that in a relationship

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                                    Jealousy in a relationship is that uncomfortable feeling you get when a partner gets too close to people of the opposite sex. It’s actually OK to feel that way. In a way, it shows that you care and that you don’t mean to share. This kind of healthy jealousy cannot particularly be condemned. On the other hand, there is an excessive type of jealousy which is both irrational, childish, toxic and just so unreasonable. When a partner tries to limit all forms of communication with members of the opposite sex, when they feel threatened by your association to other men or women, no matter how harmless the relationship is, that is an obviously unhealthy relationship behaviour. If you have a partner who is like this, here are ways to deal with that: 1. Be honest with them about how you feel If you are honest with your partner about your friendships, connections, business a...
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Here are 4 types of single women that men avoid

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 If you are single with an eye towards dating and finding the man of your dreams, it may be easy to keep thinking you are quite the catch and that it’s the loss of menfolk who keep sleeping on you. It is easy to not spot the issues that may be keeping potential partners away from you. Sometimes it could just be a refusal to admit them. According to Angelina Borak, an American certified relationship coach, there are few habits and behavioural patterns that could make it easy for guys to quickly move over from you. Here are some of them below: 1. You pressure for perfection too early This does not come immediately, or right off the bat. And you need to realise this. . Some connections need to be worked on to grow into the love story you desire. Projecting an unrealistic desire for ‘perfect’ on a guy too early will shoo him off even though that is not what you want. 2. You postpone things you should focus on When it comes to dating, you want a relationship, but don’t prioritise the th...
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